The internet is abuzz with kilig as both team Araneta concert goers and team bahay netizens are still in a concert high from singer-songwriter TJ Monterde’s 3-day sold-out “Sarili Nating Mundo” concert at the Big Dome last February 1-3.
The event was filled with TJ’s greatest hits, accompanied by surprise guests like OPM artists Adie, Maki, Arthur Nery, BINI’s Colet, Korean singer Kwon Jung-yeol, and more.
But among the show’s most unforgettable moments were the ones shared with his wife, Asia’s Soul Supreme KZ Tandingan, as they harmonized the stage with both music and heartfelt love.
Audience and fans were treated with pure romance and OPM serenades—from TJ’s moving dedication to his wife to their Billboard-awarded PH hit song “Palagi,” which is now hailed as the “official engagement anthem.”
Beyond the love songs, the concert was also a testament to faith. It’s a reminder of how trust in the right timing has shaped the artist’s life, love, and career.
For the singer-songwriter, this is all a reflection of one powerful belief: “Puhon,” a Bisaya phrase that means “someday” or “God’s perfect timing.”
Here’s how Puhon teaches us that the best things in life—love, success, and happiness—come at the right time.
Love is stronger when it grows in the right time
During interviews, TJ shared that his relationship with KZ was built on a solid foundation of friendship and dedication as he pursued her with pure intentions of love and respect. In the fast paced modern world, their love story wasn’t rushed; it unfolded naturally, leading to a relationship filled with unwavering support. Their hit song Palagi and their love story is a reflection of how true love is worth the wait, a principle that we ought to learn and understand in this 21st century kind of society.
Success is a marathon not a sprint
Every career-driven journey is not an overnight success. Like TJ’s singing out at small gigs to selling out concerts at the Big Dome, it is an inspiring example that hard work, consistency, and patience indeed pays off. Just like Puhon teaches that success comes when effort aligns with the right moment.
An inspiring example for this was the full circle moment when TJ used to be the opening act for Martin Nievera’s concert, and years later, Martin returned the gesture during TJ’s Sarili Nating Mundo concert—a true testament to Puhon.
Relationships thrive on support and growth
Relationships like KZ and TJ’s remind us that true love is about supporting each other’s dreams, not stifling them; cheering each other on, and growing both individually and as a couple. It takes two to tango.
Faith and patience make the journey worthwhile
Puhon isn’t just about waiting, it is also about trusting the process and that everything happens for a reason. Whether in love, career, or personal growth, they remind us that delays are not denials; they are preparations for something greater.
Happiness is found in the process, not just the destination
As TJ and KZ have shown through their relationship, the most fruitful life is not about reaching milestones but reflecting and enjoying every step of the journey. From late night song writings and jamming sessions to shared music chart victories, they show us that the most beautiful moments happen while waiting for our dreams to unfold.
Reading and writing about stuff like love, career, and the process and journey of waiting for God’s perfect timing is easier said than done. But in a world full of doubts and uncertainties, we can always cling on to the hope and faith of knowing what’s meant for us will always find its way, even if it takes some time.
