There are a lot of great things about being an adult. The freedom, the personal choices, and the capacity to make your own decisions. It becomes a point in life where youâre able to experience being an individual. With things like budgeting, commuting alone, and planning your schedule, there are a lot of milestones that come with being an adult.
Arguably, an underrated part of being an adult is the clothing, where you get to have a more expanded capacity to think about what you want to wear on a daily basis. Gone are the days when your parents would buy a t-shirt or pants for you every so often. Now, you get to decide what outfits and pieces you specifically want to wear.
This aspect of adulting can actually surprise you, since itâs not exactly an anticipated part of it, unlike things like driving or getting a valid ID. Regardless, it can be daunting to figure out where you want to begin with your wardrobe as a young adult. Luckily, there are a few ways you can start doing so.
1. Assess What You Already Own

Just because you have the physical and maybe financial independence to start buying new clothes does not mean that you should. Buying clothing on impulse without a clear plan will drain your bank account faster than you can enjoy all your new clothes.
Instead, start from the beginning, and start with what you already own. In your near two decades of existence, you most likely have amassed an assortment of clothing that you lean towards often. Check what pieces you often wear and what you donât. Begin to separate these two piles to get a clear idea of what you already like to wear.
Doing this will allow you to understand where you currently stand in terms of your wardrobe and create your wardrobe starting point, which is ready to expand later down the line.
2. Check Hand-Me-Downs From Family
Sometimes, family can be a great gift. If you have the benefit of being the youngest or your parents have amassed a sizable collection of clothes that they donât wear, itâs a great idea to check on the pieces that could be a part of your wardrobe instead. Chances are, if they donât already wear it often, theyâll be more willing to give it to you.
Itâs not a bad idea if you think about it, because itâs a win-win for everybody. Your parents or siblings have one less clothing item to consider in their wardrobe, and you have successfully added a piece to your wardrobe without needing to buy anything. Itâs cost-efficient and environmentally friendly.
3. Identify The âUniformsâ

The idea of âuniformsâ doesnât need to be in a literal sense, though it can be. The idea is that you also need to identify what pieces of clothing are intention-specific, as in they have a specific purpose in mind. In the sense of an actual school or work uniform, you need to identify that you need to purposefully buy those pieces.
However, it also works to identify the pieces of clothing that are used for other purposes. For example, if you’re an avid gym-goer, it might be useful to start buying true compression shirts and gym shoes instead of relying on a ratty t-shirt and old sneakers. The same goes if you have upcoming excursions to the beach or the pool.
Take note of your âuniforms,â i.e., the clothing that you need to buy for a specific purpose because they are arguably the first ânewâ pieces that you should add to your decently-sized wardrobe, as theyâre the least likely pieces that youâll regret.
4. Get Some âInspirationâ
It would not be smart if you didnât use the internet at all in finding your personal style, but it would also not be smart if you haphazardly bought everything you saw online just because they fell under your chosen âaesthetic.â The answer is naturally in moderation, where you should simply use the inspiration as a guiding light while keeping yourself firmly grounded to where youâre already at.
Itâs likely that the clothes you already own and like already tell a story of what your fashion style is, albeit in a rugged and rough sense. Listen to it, figure out why exactly you like those pieces, and reference it with your online inspiration to create a smart but well-informed guide on how to bridge your dream aesthetic into reality.
5. Experiment

Fashion is an art, and like most art, it is a process of trying what you like and what you donât like. Experimenting is going to be your biggest asset here, because youâre not going to figure out what you like unless you actually try. Learn to step out of your comfort zone and figure out first-hand what outfits you like or donât like.
The biggest lesson that you can learn from finding your personal style is to be okay with failing. Sometimes, youâre going to put an outfit together that isnât the best, and thatâs okay, because itâs natural. Youâre going to have days where the outfits or clothes that you wear donât make you feel the best, and thatâs good. Itâs a lesson for next time, and now, you have a better idea of what clothes make you feel good or not.
Clothing can be a tricky thing to get right, especially in our aesthetically driven world of today. But thatâs what adulting isâtrying to figure out things for yourself and learning more about what you want. The greatest gift of adulting is giving you freedom and individuality, so make the most of it and have fun.








